if you control yours (kids).
There is no child bashing here. I don't have kids, but that doesn't mean I'm anti-child. I love kids. I love dogs. Just so we're clear from the get-go.
This is Dog Bite Prevention Week.
A subject near and dear to my heart..dog safety. This might be a long one, so run now. You've been warned ;)
I rambled on so much I'm waiting to post the other part of my *PSA* tomorrow.
First and foremost, my dogs are public safe. They are always leashed and kept under our control, they are well behaved.. we train for calm behavior in public spaces. None of them have behaved aggressively towards anyone. We walk them on 4 ft leashes, we chose campsites that are as remote as possible..not everyone loves dogs or is comfortable around them and we try to respect that.
Likewise, people should respect that not all dogs LIKE being handled by strangers. Nice dogs, safe dogs..but they, like us, have levels of comfort. 3 out of 4 of my dogs fall into this category, so I'm especially touchy about this. They are happy to wag their way on by strangers, or accept a treat, but prefer not to be loved on. That should be ok, but so often it isn't.
I will never utter the words "MY dog would never bite." Any dog can bite. So, we operate from that standpoint.
I don't let my dogs greet children too young to grasp the basics of dog meeting and greeting. It's nothing against kids. It's a safety measure for all of us.
My dogs will never be allowed to behave in an inappropriate manner , they will never be allowed in a position to harm your family..but it takes two of us.
I control my dogs, but you control your kids. Neither of us wants harm to come to your child.
We hike and camp with our dogs. I am always astounded at the number of people who allow their kids to charge straight up to my dogs.
Never, ever assume that a dog is *safe* because they are out in public. You don't assume all strangers are safe, so why put that assumption on a dog? There are a ton of dogs out in public that shouldn't be there.
Wait..that's for tomorrow.
Once, I asked to pet a pretty black lab..the owner said "Sure! Just don't touch his head or back and don't make eye contact."
Holy mother of Good Dogs, that dog should NOT have been off leash in a park. Don't make eye contact!? Sure, don't stare intently at a dog..but no eye contact!?
(There I go again. That's for tomorrow. Dog owners and our responsibilities.)
Teach your children to approach calmly and ASK FIRST. Teach them to ask you to come along and meet dogs..I am far more comfortable if Mom/Dad/Whoever is there to help Kid Manage while I Dog Manage.
Teach them to greet dogs properly. Read up on dog bite prevention.
Most children are bitten in the face..their little faces are Right There at teeth level.
I was told I should not have my dogs in public if they don't love everyone and want touched by everyone.
Ridiculous.
I'm doing my part. I want kids to be safe and I don't want kids to fear dogs. I have four dogs, of course I don't! I want my dogs (and myself) to be comfortable while out and about.
I understand kids can get away from you, so please, don't get angry if I step up for my dogs and say "Stop!" if your little ones are heading for us at full speed.
I'm not trying to traumatize your child. I'm trying to manage a situation to keep everyone safe and comfortable.
We can all get along, with respect from both parties.
Also, please don't get upset if your kiddo samples the dog treats they were feeding my dogs. They are organic. :D
Ok, seriously? That person said don't make eye contact? Yeah, put that dog on a leash!!
ReplyDeleteBetter yet, keep that dog at home!!
ReplyDeleteCool info post...
ReplyDeleteAmen, sister.
ReplyDeletei agree with you totally. one should never assume anything about any dog. or a child...
ReplyDeletegreat information on how to keep everyone safe. I was walking my sheltie once while on vacation ... here comes a full-speed dog on a leash dragging its owner (a little woman that could not hold the dog back) the lady had a big smile on her face like "Oh, Here we come to interact with you and your dog"
ReplyDelete..Sorry! no way lady I held my hand up like a stop motion of a crossing guard, and was shaking my head at her to stop. Another lady that was walking also ran over to her and scolded her that she had to control her dog (even on a leash) I slipped away not wanting to interact with someone who can not control a big (I mean enormous) dog.
great post. i don't take my dogs out in public (unless they're going to the vet). i am lax on socializing them as they're 99.9% countryfied. however, i never take for granted they'll behave - even on their own property. and people who think they can bring small children here because "oh my kids LOVE dogs!" get a very firm talking to and mostly talking out of... our dogs are big and fast and will bowl over an adult who is not watching them play, much less a child...
ReplyDeletesame goes for folks who want to bring their dog out here to play and run free. i very firmly tell them no way as my dogs will defend their territory from intruders...
ReplyDeleteYou are right! I don't know why people always assume that every dog is a friendly dog because they all aren't. Mine are fine with my kids but I don't know about a smaller kid pulling at them. I do know that my dogs do not like it if another dog comes into our yard. If I'm outside they almost get into fights with other dogs in our yard if they try to come around me. They don't want to share me! lol I'm that special! hehehe
ReplyDeleteI think the parents are embarrassed by their children, but also don't want to make a fuss so the dog owner feels their dog is not kid-friendly. It's such a complicated dynamic.
ReplyDeleteI have two German Shepherds, so usually it's "do they bite?" I'm okay with that. I always answer, only if I tell them to. :)
very wise-
ReplyDeleteAloha from Waikiki
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